What is Mediation in Pennsylvania?

Mediation is the process in which couples meet in an informal and private setting with a specially trained third-party neutral with the goal of resolving their differences. The neutral “mediator” facilitates communication between the parties by allowing them to flush out relevant issues and share their perspectives. The mediator then explores settlement options with the goal of reaching an agreement.

Generally, the mediation process is held confidentially, and no part of the process or anything discussed during the process can be used by or against any party if the efforts to settle are unsuccessful and a trial or arbitration is held. The end goal of mediation is to reach an agreement that is acceptable to both parties and which both parties will agree to abide by in the future.

Mediation creates positive results at a fraction of the cost of litigation. Ultimately, a mediated resolution leaves the parties with the sense of satisfaction that comes from speaking their peace in a mutually respectful forum in which they find and reach a solution on their own.

What is a Mediator?

A mediator is a specially trained third-party neutral who facilitates the negotiation of a settlement, the terms upon which the parties agree. 

In the mediation process, the power remains entirely with the parties involved in the dispute. The mediator is present to assist in the negation of differences and does not assess blame or render a judgment on the case. Instead, the mediator serves as the neutral point between opposing interests to ensure effective communication, and to moderate and guide the process to help avoid confrontation. The mediator seeks concessions from both parties during this process to help facilitation an acceptable solution.

At the Center for Family Resolution, mediation attorney Shelly Grossman has 30 years of family law experience, enabling her to approach legal matters with a broad-based perspective in her role as a neutral or advocate, as well as an appreciation for the nuances required to guide parties to resolution.

Benefits of Mediation:

• The parties control the outcome, rather than a judge or other stranger.
• Divorce and custody mediation saves the cost, time and emotional stress of traditional, adversarial trial proceedings.
• Mediation fosters continued communication between the parties/parents and protects a future working relationship.
• Mediation focuses on problem-solving and the resolution of issues that are important to the parties and the best interest of the children.

Disputes among separating or divorcing couples are inevitable. The purpose of mediation is to resolve a dispute without litigation, making the dispute process smoother, faster, and more affordable for everyone involved.